So you got married and became a man of vows. All those promises you made to your wife really mean something now, so it's time to start walking the walk. Fortunately, being a good husband isn't impossible. It's about following your heart, your conscience, and acting on your love for your wife. These simple steps, if taken seriously, can help lead you and your better half to a brighter future.
Be a gentleman, if she/he'll let you. Most, not all, women/men find the idea of a gentleman sweet and endearing. If your wife is that kind of lass, get ready to bust out your most chivalrous self. Think 17th century manners, or thereabouts
Of course, there's always the chance that she/he doesn't want you treating her in a gentlemanly way. If she doesn't, don't take it personally. Continue being sweet to her, even if you don't give her special treatment.
Respect is an act of understanding. Understand that your wife is an independent, different person, and that she may not want to do the exact same thing as you, even though your interests are usually aligned. Here are four examples of ways you can be respectful of your wife
Do what you say you'll do. If you tell her you're going to do the dishes, don't wimp out and then make excuses while she takes over your responsibility.
If you say you're going to be somewhere at a certain time — say, pick up your kid at daycare — be there. Your wife's time is just as valuable as yours. Respect it.
Don't just assume that she'll do something because she's your wife or a woman. Establish good lines of communication instead. Learn how to ask for a favor.
Listen to what she's saying. Don't pretend to listen — actually listen. Sometimes, the only thing we want is a good listener or a shoulder to lean on. Let her talk and be absorbed in what she's saying.
Get in the habit of telling the truth. Ask yourself how you would feel if you found out your wife was keeping anything but a birthday secret from you. Always tell her where you are going if she wants to know. Tell her who you are with. Tell her what your motivations are, even if you think they're petty. Being open and never lying establishes great verbal communication, which is at the heart of all great relationships.
Offer it to your hubby in adorable wrapping paper with a little note clarifying the noteworthiness of the playlist to you.
Then again, stick it in his vehicle Cd player and set it with the goal that it will play whenever he turns on his vehicle. This slippery expansion will have your hubby grinning and soon as he clasps his safety belt.
Give him something from nature
Gather something from a spot in nature that is extraordinary to you. This can be a stone in the state of a heart, a shell from the shoreline, or even a tree limb from your most loved climb. Tell your hubby that this token from nature helps you to remember him.
This doesn't mean you ought to do all the cleaning in the house constantly, however you should both offer in the obligations of making an agreeable home. Do whatever it takes not to assume control over your mutual room by tossing your garments and cosmetics all over the place.
Welcome him energetically. In case you're at home when your man returns home, welcome him with a kiss and a grin. Doing as such quickly sets a positive tone for your consequent connection and fortifies the home as an agreeable, upbeat place.
It goes without saying, but it must be mentioned. Cheating is a form of lying. You wouldn't be very accepting of your wife having an affair, so why would you? If you're having an affair, take a good, hard look at your life and ask yourself why you're married to the person you're married to.
If you love your husband but lust after someone else, realize how unfair the situation is. You want the comfort of your husband, but you're not willing to be exclusive and then try wazifa to control husband. This is selfish behavior at its most basic. You can't have your cake and eat it, too.